Hi, 26F, earning 75k gross. Recently I had a call catch up from a long-time virtual friend since 2019 pa. We never met but we had some interactions. He offered me a part-time job as an encoder with salary of 30k monthly, wfh.

Now, my partner doesn't want me to take the offer kasi nagseselos siya. Na inofferan daw ako kasi baka may gusto sakin. Gets ko naman yung nafefeel niya, and I don't want her to feel uncomfortable but I badly need extra income. I'm giving my parents 20k monthly to pay their huge debts, then yung natira, sakin. I'm living independently kaya living expenses sakin din lahat. So for savings parang konti na lang din natitira. Plus, encoding seems light as sideline (for me).

I swear I get her point, na not to trust anyone. Alam kong concern siya na may halong selos. Ayaw niya lang yung thought na I'm talking with people na I never met pa. Nanghihinayang lang din ako sa mamimiss kong opportunities kung ganun. I know my boundaries naman. mahal ko girlfriend ko and proud ako having her. nakekwento ko rin siya run sa guy. Gusto ko lang talaga kumita ng money. I tried to explain my side to her but she really don't want the thought na baka bet ako ng guy kaya ako inofferan.

need ko lang sana malaman kung valid ba tong naiisip ko or wala na ako sa tamang daan :(