I’ve noticed that there are a lot of guys getting dumped before and after the new year, here are my tips on how to avoid it, as a guy with a ratio of 10:1 in getting dumped. Here are the pitfalls and strengths that I have to never get dumped:

1.) Never be too emotional and vulnerable.

Most of my friends that get dumped are overtly emotional and they’re always in a rut, they have a tendency to beg and plead, and you can just tell that they’re crazier for their partner than the other way around. Don’t be clingy or needy, don’t make her your therapist, and put your big boy pants on.

2.) Learn how to mirror her actions.

This is a gold mine, if a woman is simply not reciprocating, you must mirror her actions, if she stops texting you for a day, don’t be overprotective and ask where she is, wait for her to get back to you. Don’t dump 2-3 paragraphs of texts.

3.) Know what it means to be a man.

Most often men would think that their only job is to be a provider, but the reality is that being a man is much more than that, it is about being calm and stoic. Be the most charming and confident guy out there, know your worth and set no limits to what you can achieve.

Take note that there is no sure fire way of not getting dumped, but as a guy that does the dumping and always shows his best self no matter what, I avoid heartbreak like a plague, and focus on being the charming guy that I am.