A lot of people are fucked because of their past, it is something that is unavoidable and out of your control. Therapy and counseling with a side of mental wealth books can only really take you so far, I find that the ones that spread healthy quotes about relationships online are usually the ones really fucked in the head too.

People have been telling me that people from less than ideal homes are stronger and more resilient in their relationships, but from what I noticed amongst friends and casual lovers, iba talaga yung agwat when it comes to dating someone with no exposure of a healthy relationship dynamic. Supplement this with unhealthy examples of relationships in popular media.

Children of divorce/dysfunction/broken homes are rampant, they’re not at fault though, it is just sad to see how they act in certain ways that people from normal and healthy homes don’t. Usually, having been dating and meeting random people, you an really tell how someone acts by the way, they grew-up.