When we start complaining and whining about life, it becomes hard, but when we stop and live in the moment that is when everything becomes a still picture. We tend to overthink and overanalyze problems thinking of numerous solutions when the best solution for everything is to live in the moment and actively participating in their own rescue, now, all of us have numerous problems in life but we can't these problems define who we are. We have to acknowledge that life happens to you, not for you. Not everything is going to go our way and that is fine, we must find strength in uncertainty and take pleasure in the time that we have.

It is better to take life positively no matter how negative things get, our environment is negative but if we take the approach of being positive but acknowledging the problems of our surroundings and feel indifferent, we begin to appreciate life. If we can't change things, no matter what we do, then we have to change ourselves. Most people won't, they prefer to gallop in self-pity and self-loathing when the reality is that life takes us in a chain of events that may go to our liking but if it doesn't, we have to understand the lesson, and it never really matters how painful and hard the lesson maybe, but it is lesson that we need to acknowledge to grow as a human being. Life is all about lessons, it is not about holding on about what was but it is learning to let go when our circumstances no longer benefit us.