First off I’m typing this on my phone so I apologize if punctuation or spelling errors pop up.

I have been in a sexually dead marriage for the last 3 years. I don’t feel like I can push this issue because she is sexually dead due to some major trauma when she was younger that had come up in counseling after we were married. I can’t take this much longer I need physical intimacy. I came into this as a swinger and extremely sexually open. She had said she was open to this when we got married then this happened.

I won’t return to the swinging community as an affair. This community has too many negative stereotypes as it is and they are wonderful people who don’t actually condone this. I have found some relief of my issues through toys and playing around over The internet but it’s not the same.

I brought up an open marriage that idea got squashed quickly. I’m really sorry to bother you all but I need some advice. A few times in the past I have posted looking for APs with no luck but I’m sure I need to just write better lol. Anyway I would love some advice or some pointers from people who have been down this road.

Thanks for reading.