So, a month or so ago, I posted on Ashley Madison. I was honest about my age (58) and posted numerous private pics. AM costs a small fortune for guys to send messages. I sent a ton of them, and got a few responses, but no real hits. Most just opened the message without responding. I thought the selection would be much better being on Long Island so close to NYC. I thought for sure that pics of a guy (me) 5’ 10”, with natural blond hair and blue eyes, in great shape, would garner more interest. As far as Tinder, I’ve gotten even less of a response. Between the two, I’ve spent a small fortune!

The real questions I have are am I too old for an AP? Is there anything in particular in either a heading or brief bio that catches your attention more? I’m seriously considering calling it quits. If you’d prefer not to answer here, feel free to PM/DM.

Thanks. Any suggestions will be greatly appreciated.