... your pAP asks you "are you even attracted to me?". This is the pAP I've been chatting back and forth with for over a month after excusing numbers.

She flaked on two dates in a row after our first bowling date. I figured she wasn't feeling the chemistry in person, so decided to cool it and stop pushing.

We still have several hobbies in common, so I figured, hey we can at least be friends. I've just been talking to her about climbing and local trail updates.

Today she finally goes, if you're backing off or don't find me hot just let me know. I thought we had good chemistry but if you're not feeling it just let me know.

Man, I've been doing this for a few years with 3 other ex-APs, and still royally misread signals 🤦‍♂️

Thank you for being so direct instead of assuming and ghosting me dear pAP!