Our job is hard enough without the bots and fakes so I propose we help one another get our money's worth out of this site. My first tip is one I learned through CL and AFF: It sounds too good to be true that's because it is too good to be true. Women in my experience rarely define themselves as "hot MILF" or anything overtly sexual. They don't tend to see themselves as objects. Avoid that one. It's bullshit.

Another is the ad/profile written so generically that any man fits the bill. This is a common one.

Example from an actual post
"Not looking to change anyone's status. Attached and happy looking for discreet fun and someone that can give me what I need."

What's wrong with this post? It doesn't exclude anyone. Hear me out. My experience with women has been they have standards and ideals they're looking for. They're not wanting to hear from every guy, just certain types of guys. So they're going to put something in their ad/profile that qualifies some kinds of men and excludes others. If an ad/bio sounds like any man and every man should write them then I avoid that ad.

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Here's an example of an ad I would put money on comes from a real woman seeking:

No picture, no response, it is only fair.... If you're under 45 and send me anything... I won't respond so save time.

Likewise look at usernames. I'm seeing one now that says 'Sexless70'. Nope. Passing that right on by. It's not how women identify themselves in my experience.

Lastly, I'm basically ignoring full face profiles. That's either incredibly bad OPSEC or not someone genuine. This isn't a hard and fast rule as the same profile I mentioned above has a face pic. In my experience, (I repeat this often so I'm not jumped on for claiming all women do anything) a woman's first concern is her safety. They imagine themselves stalked and murdered by meeting men online so they are cautious revealing anything about themselves until they're comfortable.

So those are some tips that I hope will help you save your connects for profiles where there's an actual chance. What I'd like to know in return is how long do the bots typically try to dupe you into believing a woman has messaged you? I've been on AM approximately a week and I expected a bevy of bullshit interest for the first couple of days so I ignored them all. They dropped off to nothing after about 3 days. Now I have a waiting message that popped up today and I'm not sure if it's legit. I read the profile and seems to be a genuine woman who wrote it that has similar interests to my own. So... what's your experience been? Are the bots always pushing profiles at you or at some point do they quit and what comes through afterwards is genuine?

Thanks guys and happy hunting out there.