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Goal: a NSA meetup with this MM would be a dream come true
I work in a professional setting but we all flirt some. Long drawn out hugs, generalized flirty comments that arn't too abrasive, ect. He's one of the few men that works with us and hugs all of the day shift women equally, BUT with me...I work nights and we see each other maybe for half an hour during shift change. Over a couple of years I've slowly allowed our hugs to grow from side hugs to full on frontals. He commented how excited he was to get this from me. I'm flattered myself! I always found him attractive and avoided longer hugs due to my knowing I'd want MORE if I ever found myself so close to him.
I would like to say something to him that says, "I'd totally sleep with you, just ask." To be fair, I did tell him I recently I held off on the frontal hugs so long because he was my type and it makes me too hot under the collar.
I daydreamed of wearing a shirt I can quickly unzip in a private setting and reveal a little more than normal and ask innocently, "Do you think its appropriate if I wear my shirt like this when I get hot? I want to stay professional but also cool." <I want to say something sexy, seductive and a blatant sign saying I want to sleep with you!
what about this during the hug, "If I were here a second longer at [place of employment ] I'd try to convince you to have an affair with me." finishes hug, looks at watch, " its been a second..."
I've already told him he is all the way my type! maybe he is just playful and wouldn't actually go outside his marriage.
What!? That is insane, you men and needing it spelled out. I feel like just saying "I want to fuck you" is too much at work!
What can I say in that moment then?
Would it be blunt saying to him as we do our long hugs, (soft moan) " See, this is why I never let you hug me this way, I want so much more now." (other breathy sounds)
I mean hes OBVIOUSLY attracted to me, but will he fuck me.
Haha no, I think if we started this a while ago he'd wear down and do it but my seriousness when he jokes has made him I think realize he needs to cool it with the tight long hugs and rubbing my hips when we stand next to each other. Meanwhile I drool at the thought. But oh well! Not worth getting so many down votes over sharing my excited thoughts! 🙃
I dont understand why my post and comments on this are getting downvotes. As if this desire and fantasy of mine is any worse than anyone elses in this ADULTERY sub.
Hey doc! I'm traveling now and am very attracted to the intensivist I work with. From your perspective, how would I suggest interest without being inappropriate? He isn't married, doesn't like the idea of commitment. He tried setting me up on a date with a man my age I've made the comment I'd rather someone older. He seems unsure if I'm flirting or not.
OK what about this!
He has a meme cut out and in his locker, I went snooping for something for work, he's left me an open invitation to grab what I need and its a womans ass with the words "Ass thats all I need" or something along the lines.
Should I print a pic of mine haha no maybe not. OR since I'm leaving I could playfully tease him about it and ask want a pic of mine to add in there? He'd playfully say yes of course then I'd actually print one and put it in his locker ^_^
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True, I mean, I'm leaving this job so even if he did decline my offer I wouldn't have to deal with the awkwardness. I'll keep those thoughts in mind.