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It's been exactly 1 year since I broke up with him. We were together for 1.5 years. We haven't spoken to each other in exactly 1 year.
I'd never loved anyone like that before. Not even my own husband.
I know the man I loved was my imagination, and he didn't exist. But I still miss him.
It still hurts very badly. Im open to advice or just commiserating together if you're hurting as well.
Time. You need more time. When I broke up with my AP of 18 months, someone told me it takes twice as long as you were together to get over them. So maybe by the 3 year mark he will completely leave my brain. Itās been 2 years and heās since divorced and not reached back out to me so that helped a lot in my healing. Heās moved on, so why shouldnāt I?
I would say it took a good 2 years to stop acutely hurting, and even now he still crosses my mind daily. I hope by year 3 Iāll realize one day I havenāt thought about him in days! And that will truly be the end!
Give yourself another year and then see where youāre at! But I will bet even 6 months from now you will feel a lot different!
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