This is more of a marriage sub question but I don’t want to post it there and have people harass me if they see my comments from this board. I need perspective tho so I’d appreciate thoughtful honest responses.

Tonight my so and I went to a concert w a couple friends. It was a good time but toward the end something happened that has me feeling like crap. Our friends sat directly behind us and on the opposite side from where my so was there were 2 guys. The guy next to me was fine. But at one point my so and our friends went to the bathroom. I stayed behind bc I didn’t need to go. It shouldn’t be a big deal. The guy next to me went off somewhere and his douche bag friend next to him slid over to me and asked my name. I told him I’m married bc I know where that line of convo goes. He was undeterred so I flashed my wedding band to which he said “that doesn’t matter”. He kept trying to engage me, I mostly ignored him and kept watching the show. He put his arm around me so I plucked it off, reminded him I’m married and told him my so would be right back. He kept trying to dance up on me, touch me, talk to me. I moved away from him and tried to ignore him. It was really loud and I didn’t feeling like yelling over the music to repeat myself. When so and friends came back I told so what happened. He said nothing. Douche bags friend came back but db still tried going around his friend to get to me. At one point he started dancing up on me. Not just next to me. It was very obvious what was going on. His friend kept pushing him back. One of our friends behind us told his so he was about to punch douche bag in the face. My so? No reaction whatsoever. Did nothing, said nothing, acted like nothing was happening. I felt so gross and ticked that so didn’t even try to defend me. Am I wrong for thinking he should have at least said something to the guy or swapped places with me….something? Or am I being dramatic about it? I’m so irritated. And yes this kind of crap is why I have an ap…..long distance, online, only met once….but it’s nice to have someone who SEES me.