Let's get the rough stuff out of the way - my child died last year, and my marriage, already exhibiting a severe DB, just got worse. It's not even about the DB anymore but about the physical human contact. I (52 M) want hugs and to cuddle, she (50 F) wants everyone to stay 10 feet away from her at all times. We have different ways of grieving. I'm in counseling, she won't go - not for grief, not for couples, nothing. I feel like we're just two friends who happen to live together. I don't want to leave her - that would be a devastating blow - but I need human contact (I've expressed this, she handwaves it off). I'm just looking for pros/cons/advice.