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People of r/adultery

I have some expectations, I was told by someone who replied to one of my adds, that my expectations for an AP, are too much and after a few weeks of looking I'm wondering if its my add, or if its my expectations that have limited the responses.

I Am not going to post my add here but i will detail the expectations, and if you want to see my add you can look at my profile.

I am looking for someone married and in my age range. mid 40s, Who does not want to change their situation, I'm looking for a connection outside of just the bedroom, someone who enjoys chatting during the day but understands that sometimes i may go a few hours between responding. I want someone who is local enough to actually meet up with. I also don't really want to share NSFW pix in the first 10 minutes of talking. Sure a face shot/body shot in clothes is fine.

So am i looking for too much, I really hate to lower my expectations.

Thank you for taking the time to read. Any Feedback would be appreciated.