I'm tired and pretty close to hanging my hat up. I've gone through the excitement-to-fizzle a bunch of times. Insert self aware narrative here. My vetting for initial interest is pretty good.

I'm not willing to fuck someone immediately. I'm not. I get plenty of sex at home. I know this works against me. I've been chatting with a couple of guys for a while now. Conversation and frequency is great. One is dead bedroom, the other is not happy with the level of connectivity in his relationship. It's been weeks and there's no, "Hey, let's make plans to meet," from either.

Is this... Just what it's like when you're not after the sex exclusively? I'm just not sure what to expect, if I've slid into a place with them where I'm providing easy validation or what. Insight and anecdotes appreciated.