How many of you go to meet a pAP without having exchanged pics first? I’m getting asked to do this a lot lately and it really baffles me.

Why would I take time out of my busy life, away from my family, have to make up an excuse, all to go meet someone I might not even find attractive. Or who might not find me attractive!

And how would we even recognize each other?

When a man is reluctant to share a pic first, it’s a red flag to me. Especially annoying when they slide into my chat and expect me to send a pic first. What?

But these blind meetings - is this really a thing? Have any of you done it? How has it worked out for you? Or have you lost out on a pAP because you wouldn’t?