I never did.

She did.

And I didn't care at all. We had a dead bedroom(multiple miscarriages, a still birth, and an abortion due to medical necessity).

If she found something to scratch that need. I didn't mind.

I worked long hours in the medical field. My co-workers were predominantly women.

I'm one of lucky guys that had received unsolicited “tit pics”.

One from a co-worker. She had just got them “done”. And wanted to know my thoughts.

And one from my ex’s friends. I had talked to her about my upcoming career change. And she thought we had a connection.

I never did.

But what tore us apart was her projecting that I was. She began asking my co-workers. My friends. My brothers if I was.

She went through my phone. My messages. And tracked my location.

I never did. And I should have made her know it was okay that she did.