I’m a married man in a long distance relationship. IT IS TOUGH. Lol! Especially if you have a high sex drive? Man it’s rough. It’s hard not being able to have physical contact with someone. But even just the little things that you do… I mean, yes, sex and the whole thing is great and exciting, but even just the little things like holding hands, the cuddles, warm hugs, a kiss on the forehead while your hands are wrapped around her, giving her aftercare, just the overall taking care of someone physically, intellectually, and emotionally, you know. Those little things that you do to show someone you care for her. I am missing all that. I miss everything that comes with being in a relationship with someone. People may think I’m being selfish if I want to find someone outside my current relationship, and I do understand. It’s a taboo topic for some. Maybe for most people. But I’ve been fighting this urge for a while and the build up is just getting hard to bear. That’s why I also feel for the people in a dead bedroom situation. Living away with your partner is tough, but living with someone like you don’t have a partner?? It must be hard.