Had a few hours long conversation with the wife last night. I kind of blew up from the lack of any physical contact and it was not intentional. I’ve been trying to be more romantic for weeks and it’s just gone unnoticed, and yes no sex for the last few months. We had a long conversation about how she just lacked any sexual desire for years now and she just dosent know what to do, and is just as frustrated with herself, she was very clear it’s not me, it’s everyone. My wife is very beautiful, and it’s not a body image issue, as i see men checking her out, but she has no desire for anything sexual. She believes she may be asexual and could just be a combination of her age and kids, etc. she’s given me permission to go out and do what I want, but I just feel crummy about the whole thing, almost like I’ve been exposed, since I was already looking. Not sure if anyone else is also experiencing this, and would like to get your thoughts. It was a sound, respectful, and great conversation and went till 1a and we agreed to continue but we were so tired we went to sleep. Still didn’t get laid lol!