Because I really am wondering if I am. Not the guilt part. I worked my way through that before I ever decided to dip my toe into these waters. But I'm still new at it.

I'm in Australia. No real Australian presence on the subreddits in question so it's confined to online only, and I'm fine with that. I can have just as much fun, really. But more than once, I've spent time building a connection, having brilliant conversation, only to get ghosted and blocked. The worst was one I really thought I had a potential bond with. Same interests, same stage in life, same kinks. And out of the blue, blocked. I don't even know what I did. IF I did anything at all. Felt like a kick in the gut. But it's happened at least twice more. Like, at least tell me what you're looking for that I can't provide, and leave. That's fair. The walking away/petering out without an explanation though? What do I do with that? After all the posts from women that I've read about how they get ghosted and how awful it is, it just feels hypocritical.

Fuck, or maybe it is me. Maybe I really am boring/creepy/needy. Just tell me, k? I'll try and do something about it so the next woman doesn't have to put up with it.