I forgot how much the search to find an AP can be a time consuming and sometimes frustrating experience. My previous APs seemed to end up easily working out for some reason. Maybe I was just lucky? Anyway, during the search for the right woman, I've encountered a fair number of conversations where there is almost zero reciprocation.

Even the basics at the beginning, before even sharing pics or anything... For instance, asking if they have kids and getting an answer with no question asked in return. No, "and how about you?" It's really difficult to have a conversation when the other person gives nothing back. I don't know if I have unreasonable expectations based on my previous good experiences? Is it a male/female thing that I just never noticed before? Just curious what other experiences people have had during those initial conversations with a pAP 🤷‍♂️