All of my friends have either, ADHD, ASD, OCD, CPTSD, BPD or borderline, when I look back on my life. While it's certainly a statement on the modern world, it's also because I'm drawn to NDs and people with problems because it's familiar and they tend to have more diverse interests.

Lately I've been going out of my way to befriend NTs just to see what it's like. The one friend I found was super boring. So my question is, those of you with NT friends, how do I know if they're boring just because they're NT, or if they're actually a boring person through and through? I know this question is subjective, but I'm curious in general of how women with ADHD relate to NT friends.