Half of our house is officially diagnosed and the other half will likely be when age appropriate. My (F34) husband (M33) was diagnosed as a child and after being taken off of treatment meds went back on them as an adult. I was late diagnosed and so I’m still in this weird state of masking more than I even “should” because it’s second nature to me. Having ADHD being married to someone with ADHD and parenting two children who very likely are also ADHD is exhausting. On one hand, I feel like at least we have a chance to give our daughters what our parents didn’t give us which is knowledge, treatment when necessary, counseling, added support, etc. Some days just still feel impossible because as the default parent trying to manage this and still adjust to my diagnosis while doing my best to give my husband and kids the support they need… I don’t know if there’s a life hack I’m missing or this just plain sucks sometimes? I have a wonderful counselor that I meet with and a treatment plan medication wise which I’m thankful for. I don’t know if I’m looking for solidarity or input or life hacks or what, but just sharing with this wonderful group of people who “get it” to remind myself I’m not alone.