I'm terrified. It's a really big city and I'm not like a clubbing, go to the bars type of lady. I've never lived in such a big city and I have only been here for about three weeks so far. I suppose this is just me assuming, but I'm worried I won't fit in. OK is uh slightly different from my home state of MI. On top of it, I just went through a divorce and I'm sparkingly new to accepting/exploring my sexuality.

How would you go about finding friends in the community within a brand new town and state while being a wide-eyed newbie who has no other friends/ family in the area?

PS. I'm currently in the hospital for some complications of my autoimmune disorder on a lot of pain meds so sorry if my grammar is a lil off.