okay so context, my gf is 5'2 and fits into the small category. I'm 5'6 and midsize i think? i have big thighs and a squishy stomach. i used to be insecure abt it but its just my body type so no matter how much i exercise its just there so i just embraced it, but there are times where i just hate it.

when im alone yeah its fine, but when my gf hugs me and touches me i noticed a pattern where they give extra attention to my stomach and my thighs and idk how to feel abt it. i asked abt it and they said its hot and im just confused. i know they aren't lying and they're being genuine but my insecurities jump out from time to time. im not uncomfortable with the touches, its just an odd feeling to have someone lovingly touch my body when I've always seen it as gross.