Okay so this happened a couple of months ago and it's just for the sake of my own growth and learning experience. I'm not hurt anymore just curious about where I could have gone wrong.

I (21 f bi) met this girl (20 f l) on a dating app and she was super nice. We talked for a bit and then she added me on insta. A few weeks later she asked me out, and we went for a beer and pizzas. We texted a few days prior arranging the place and talking about other things too. She seemed so cool and interested in my life and I was hyped bc it was my first date with a girl (I'd been on a straight relationship for the past few years).

So at the date we talked about lots of stuff, shallow and pretty deep stuff. It was awesome talk. I was really interested in her life and she was in mine, or so I thought because all the questions she asked. We laughed lots too, I really thought we hit it off. Suddenly two hours in she says like "let's ask for the check I gotta head home soon". I thought it was rather abrupt like she wanted it to be over. Next she insisted on giving me a lift to the bus stop, so she did. She waited for the bus to actually come and I thought that was so sweet of her, talked a lot on the bus stop and then we hugged and she left. When I got home I let her know I arrived and said " hey I had a really great time, thank you <3" and she replied kinda dry like "great, me too".

A few weeks later I text her hey how's it going blah blah do you wanna go out again sometime? And she goes like yo I'm sorry I don't want to bs you so I'll pass, I'm not in the best place rn myself so yeah (imo it was a smooth "its not u it's me").

I said thanks for the honesty and that was it. Now I can't help but thinking I miss read the whole vibe. Maybe we didn't have a great time as I thought we did? Maybe shes truly going through something?or she didn't like me? Maybe she was expecting casual sex and she could tell i was new at this? It's been on my mind for days and maybe I need an outsider opinion just to figure out if I did something wrong or. As I mentioned I'm kinda new to this and seeing all the jokes go like "lesbians move in together after the second date" doesn't help bc I feel like this never happened to anyone and makes me kinda sad. What do you guys think?

Thank u <3

Edit typo