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Long story short, I recently met a woman who is a queer who I definitely have a crush on but I have not explored that side of my sexuality before. OBVIOUSLY there a lot more to say but I am just curious if realizing that you may have made incorrect assumptions about your sexuality is common or "normal" at the ripe young age of 30 for queer people? I have had some very intense female friendships in the past that I look back on with a raised eyebrow and experienced sexual attraction to women before but never acted on anything.
Basically on the common life progression model we have built in this modern economy, 30 is a pretty common age to realize stuff. It's the time when, on average, you've probably stabilized a little in your career, your social life, and your brain functioning, and now that those things are taken care of, you get to take a moment, breathe, and ask, "but now what?"
Personally, even though I came out when I was 30, I can look back now and see all the signs that were there for years, but I didn't have the time and space to put them all together.
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