-text someone and say that I find them very pretty and would like to take them on a date? Coz one thing that I’ve noticed from all the people I’ve met on dating apps is that: I’m great at either making them my friend, or bore them to ‘ghostification’. I know that there’s a fine line between being under romantic and being a creep, and that it varies from person to person.

This leads me onto my question: when in the texting phase, do I ask them out on a date? I feel like it’s preferably as soon as at least 2-3 fun and engaging conversations have been had with each other. What do yall think? Should it be earlier, or later, and why? Thank you so much for helping a lesbian out who is in this exact phase, after matching with the prettiest person ever who I think I can vibe with as well :D