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Meeting with someone i met on an app need advice
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So I matched with a girl on an app today. We got to chatting and it lasted a few hours. I’m a very cautious person and this girl just made me feel uneasy. She did nothing weird it’s just that she got way too friendly way too fast and it set off some alarm bells for me.

For example she asked me to be her fitness partner, asked to color coordinate for our first hangout and even offered to pick me up from my place and whatnot. She also got too personal but people in this country tend to do that especially with me ( i’m visibly not from around here)

I’m the kind of person who is more comfortable with stuff like this after maybe 2-3 hangouts.

I plan on meeting her in a very public area (she’s will not be picking me up). But i did agree on the color thing. Idk i tend to be an over-thinker, im also a minority in this country so i think it’s warranted.

Am I rightful in being weirded out by her over friendliness/ enthusiasm to someone she barely knows?

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