Basically wondering if anyone else is like me. I'm fat (plus size if that makes you feel better), and I pretty much never reach out to or pursue or make first contact in a romantic sense if the person is skinny/straight size/ average. Occasionally if they mention body positivity in their bio/post, I'll consider it, but otherwise I feel like the majority of skinny people aren't interested in dating a fat person. (not here to debate the morality of that)

I like being fat, am no longer ashamed of my weight, etc, but still continue this behavior that i picked up from childhood.

Skinny sapphics, is this a surprise to you, or are you aware that being fat is considered an automatic deal breaker? Is it for you? Do you want fat women to make the first move?