I have a question for everyone. Please don't come for me, Im happy to be educated ☺️ I'm a latebloomer lesbian. I've come out to my partner (Im 33, we've been together for 10 years and have a toddler together) and am starting the process of separating. I am also trying to work on any internalized homophobia I may have and what that looks like.

I see a lot of posts talking about how a lot of bi women or late blooming women expect the hetero relationship roles. I personally have felt like I needed to "fit the role" of girlfriend with men and it never felt right. I have not dated woman yet. I had a short lived situationship for a bit. (She was aware of and completely ok with my situation, she wasn't an experiment, communication and consent are sexy!)

My question is how can help break these expectations and help heal and rid myself of any internalized homophobia? (I'm already working a queer therapist)