Hi! My gf and I have some struggles with sex. I 100% enjoy any kind of stuff we do, but she's not turning on as quick as I do. Tonight she told me, she wants me to be more rough and passionate, but I thought I was pretty passionate already. But she wants sth more? She said, she's easily distracted and she wants me to keep her excitement, to switch between different kinds of stimulation all over her body, to be more rough, to make her feel a little bit of pain. She never dated a woman before, her expirience in sex is based on heterosexual sex only, idk if it means anything.
How do I become more passionate and rough? I don't mind it, I like kinky stuff, but not exactly sure, how to please her. She doesn't want to use bondage or anything yet, and I am a bit confused, how to hold her feelings sharp.