Okay so haha, I understand that most lesbians/queer women hate it when they are “invited” to join a str8 couple sexually. It has happened to me many times and I have felt uncomfortable, disgusted, disappointed but also entertained (lol as in “amused” by getting asked by those specific people).

I guess if I was to answer my own question myself… I don’t think any of this would apply to getting asked by a lesbian couple lol. I suppose I am quite inexperienced in this subject and I want to hear about all of your experiences and thoughts. I send love to you all.

Edit: for the sake of context and conversation, I (27) have been with my girlfriend (35) for eight years. Clearly this topic has come up; and when it does, we have come to the conclusion that even when we both are attracted to the same woman, and feel chemistry, neither of us would dare to “start that conversation lol because the last thing we would want is to come off as “predatory/annoying/gross” you know? But then I also think how I would never go up to a couple that I am attracted to, even if I know they are open because I would fear to come off as disrespectful.

Last edit: I suppose that I really value the very few and far between queer friends that I have and meet, so it kind of feels like it is not “worth the risk” to ruin a potential friendship which I do treasure. Lol these are my lesbian thoughts as I wait for my delayed flight. Cheers.