I thought I was a gay trans man because I hated being treated as a woman whilst dating men...and I thought maybe I was trans because I hated being in a womans role while in a heteronormative relationship.

I thought I liked men in a gay way because My brain really hated being seen as a woman with men, and thought I must have been a gay trans man. During me presenting as male, I was pissed a lot because most people never saw me as male that much.

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I think presenting as a trans man was draining to my psyche. I now realize I am a butch lesbian because I actually don't want to be seen as a male in the future. I want to date women as a woman. I am not attracted to men in any way.

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