I was sexually abused a bit in my childhood and then for a full year when I was a teen. The only other sexual experience I've had is with my husband. We have been together for a long time, but I still find intimacy and sex so uncomfortable. He knows this and does his best to be as understanding and accommodating as can be. He always wants to make me feel safe. I just feel uncomfortable even talking about sex. I don't know anything about it since I grew up in a religious household and we never talked about sex. So all I know is either abuse or the little bit of experience with my husband. I'm just not sure what to do or how to feel good during sex after everything I've been through. I need some advice on how to feel more comfortable with intimacy and what I can do to maintain that wellness. I appreciate anything anyone has to say, thanks!