I am in the middle of writing a sex scene for a new story I’m writing and I’m feeling like I walked into a wall of issues, I’m writing this as a cis lesbian love at first sight type modern day fantasy only problem is I’m transfem and I’m kinda hitting a wall of not knowing how to phrase things without sounding like “men writing women” cause I always pictured fantasy couples doing it differently than actual people like in the world these analogies make sense but to us it makes no sense. I wrote a line that was “when I saw her smile down at me it feels as if I was a sandcastle getting washed away in the waves of her blue eyes” then I went back and re-read it and I thought I sound like a lunatic

Any help would be great