I've lived in multiple countries and have often felt stuck in-between cultures. Unfortunately, there's a negative stereotype about Black men that other races pick up on, making it tough to date. When I returned to Zambia, not having a job or the means for luxury made me less desirable to many women.

I want to emphasize that I am actively interviewing for jobs and looking for legitimate ways to earn money, but when results don't show in a few weeks, I'm deemed unfit for dating.

How can I find a emotionally matured woman, regardless of race, who will genuinely be attracted to and love me for who I am, without having to falsify details just to be in a relationship? Trying to be someone you aren't just too attract somoene doesnt end well I've seen this too often l. Any advice is appreciated