I seen this posted other places this as a reply somewhere else. Thought I'd make a post for the 200 couples lurking here today who want find a "unicorn".

• Become swingers
• Have fun
• Be fun
• Be kind
• Fuck couples
• Relax
• Let go of your script
• Treat everyone as human

Guaranteed to work.

We played with a single lady this weekend. Here is how it works in real life.

We were at a place were we are regulars. We have no set agenda on how we will play or with who. We enjoy couples, single women and guys.. We have boundaries and things we don't like. But recognize that others are human and have their own desires and interests and seek to find the overlap if there is one. Not to find a fantasy fulfilling magic unicorn. They don't exist. But the space were everyone gets something fun!

A single lady liked the looks of us and struck up a conversation. We talked a flirted. We enjoyed each other's company and the conversation and connection for what it was. We just hung out for about an hour.. Sexy people connecting with no expectations having good conversation. We shared info about different clubs and parties.. And then we played a little. She was there with another couple and had plans to play with them later. I also played with that gentleman a little.

Later we went to dinner and she invited a guy she is seeing and we got to know him and may all play together next weekend.

Even "single" ladies have attachments and don't stay single long. There isn't someone out there who will just slot into your fantasy. Just real humans. Like you.

If this go with flow attitude doesn't sound good to you...you ned a sex worker. Because that's what the reality of swinging and playing with single women often looks like. Just nice connections. Not an scripted fantasy.

There are no unicorns. Just people.