I think folks should take a hot minute to review their ettiquite and strategy regarding advertisements and responding to ads here.

For starters, I'll never understand why people clamor for selection while responding to an ad posted with zero info. In a more understandable situation, the advertisement would include a cropped, but well exposed and flattering image showing general body type for starters (no nudity required), as well as include some written description of what sort of dynamic is preferable, or what type of partners the OP is most interested in (ages, bodytype, personal habits etc). Then people who don't fit that demographic can move on by without commenting, and those that do, and share mutual interest can then begin talking. Instead, I'm usually seeing a generally vague post, followed by what seems to be super thirsty single (or married/cheating/fantasy) dudes that would fuck a watermelon if they thought it had a pulse. (I caution ANYONE against engaging with people that instantly say "i'm down" to ads sight unseen. they are either flakes, fakes, or riddled with syphilitic insanity.)

Also, if you're going to post nudes, do it with the point if representing yourself in the best way that you can. A close-up blurry pic of your genitals does nothing for you or anyone else. Just like you probably dont want to showcase a cake that you baked by setting it on the floor next to a fresh pile of dog shit for the picture, perhaps clean up all the garbage and clothes and trash in your room that's in the background of the photo, or straighten up the bathroom vanity and wipe the toothpaste splatter off the mirror. (this goes for guys and dick pics too... never, ever, ever send anyone a pic of your dick while your sitting on the toilet. It makes you look like a dirty fucking idiot) (as does sending or posting pics of your dick that aren't invited).

It's not recommended that you post nudes that show your face. If youre going to post your face, I suggest to post a PC pic with your face, and perhaps a second pic that is scandelous but without your face if you feel inclined. even better to post it with your screen name for legitimacy. There are predatory people here that can and will steal your images and use them fraudulently, and in some cases to defraud you personally.

This sub in particular is for finding connections in the LS locally. There are over 30k members here, and only a small portion of them are actually swingers. The vast majority are 'single' males looking for a sneak peek, or entertaining some fantasy if cheating on their spouse. If you're here in that capacity, you're not welcome. ENM can't be ENM without the word ethical. Highly suggest you go get your own shit together before engaging with others or just stick to pornhub. For the rest of you, take that knowledge into consideration and be careful who you engage with and how you do so. Don't be sending compromising photos without properly vetting people, and please report those that seem to be predatory so we can eliminate them from the community.

I'm sure theres more but I have to go back to banning people now. Just... class it up a bit. This is sexy stuff.