Some years ago I was asked by a wife of my best friend ask me if I ever had a woman that had only ever had one man. I replied that it happened MUCH more often than you may think and that it is a tender and careful thing to take a lady that had been a one man woman into the the word of dating and sex. That was the start of a very interesting step into the world of being "the #2".

Since that morning, I have been the #2 on 15 occasions for wives ranging from 27 to 62. The experience of being the 2nd man for a woman when they have only been with their husband before is unique.

What I learned is.. Be respectful; be slow, be compassionate and when she is ready penetrate her slow... let her feel the pleasures wash away the fears. Tell her how perfect her body is for pleasures, reassure her that her depths fit you perfectly and always.. ALWAYS last longer than her. make certain you cum when she is ready.. but in the end, dont finish first. Make certain she knows you want more.

The best part is you will be the #2 for many times there after and be a confidant to her dating. You also are referred. Yes the ladies refer their FWB.

Ladies - does this sound like your experience?

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Being the surrogate when a woman moves from strict monogamy to single/ hotwife/lifestyle.