This is a safety guide how to stay safe when hooking up with a stranger regardless if that person is new or returning!

When looking for a mate here are things you should AVOID no matter what, these individuals are either scammers, people who want you to pay for sex & more:

• User messages you and is friendly and still remains friendly, once you gain interest in them and have a conversation with them they end up asking you if you can take the conversation to other social networks, most common social networks is Snapchat, telegram, Whatsapp, signal, kik and much more.

If anyone asks you or comes up with a story of why they cannot chat on reddit, then its most likely either a scammer or a person that wants to take it off reddit so that you can't easily report the conversation because apps as we mentioned will notify them of any screenshots you take to report to the moderator.

If you see anyone do this report them to the admins and if your embarrassed of doing that send me the evidence and I'll pass it on to the moderator personally.

• Users who's account was just created and has no history of posts or positive karma and those that do have positive karma and used karma boosting sub reddits are most likely a bot or an individual using a throwaway account to scam you.

• Telling you they charge or request you to pay in return for sex, if they ask or tell you this do not do it, report them immediately and sieze all conversations with them.

• During the conversation they don't ask to pay for sex but will ask for money for gas to get to you and there reason is because they don't have the money at the moment to get gas, NEVER EVER pay them for gas they are responsible for paying for there own gas you do not owe them anything unless you know or had sex with in the past with the person and both agree on the terms of who is paying for gas if they are the ones driving you to their place. Most of the time they drive to your place but you do not owe them anything.

• Ensure they are from Wichita, KS, you both decide to share number ensure it's a 316 area code anything else is a big red flag, if your unsure if they actually are in Wichita some will.post in other sub reddits that are not even in Wichita, this one is pretty hard to spot but once you catch on you are able to take action by reporting them.

Hope this helps!