Gonna give this another shot. I enjoy detail, so apologies in advance for the wall of text.

I'm looking for someone I can have some semi regular fun with, but I'm not looking to just fuck, I'd like to meet someone to actually be friends with. I've got a few people I fool around with already, but I'm always the one to ask and initiate, and it would be perfect if I could find someone who was as interested as I was.

What I'm looking for;

Someone feminine, be that cis woman, trans male/female, a femboy, or even a couple, I don't mind. As long as you're relatively feminine.

Someone with a brain in their head. I want to be able to actually chat and get to know you. I'm horny as fuck, and this is to be a sexual based relationship of course, but I would like to be able to chat and laugh with someone before, during and after.

Someone who can host, or is willing to go halves on a room. I do own my own home, and I'm more than happy to host occasionally, I've just got housemates that I need to schedule around.

Someone who will initiate. Please, this is a big one for me. I will of course express interest and try to organise as well, but having someone who's also just as if not more willing would be wonderful.

Someone younger than 35. I know there's a lot of quality older people around, and it's nothing against any of you. I'd just prefer someone around my age bracket.

Someone who's happy with this staying as "friends" with benefits. I'm already set in the relationship department, and my partner is chill with me doing this.

What I'm offering;

Physically, I'm fairly average. Average height and build. I'm not thin, but I'm not fat. Not a supermodel, but I've been told I'm pretty attractive. Caucasian Aussie with Italian blood, so I've got a bit of a natural tan. For those it matters to, I'm 6" and pretty thick.

I'm patient and considerate. I'm a very good listener and love to learn people. Psychology is a favourite subject of mine, and so if you want to talk about yourself and let me get to know you, I would be thrilled.

I've got experience. I've fooled around with a few people now, including women, men, trans man/trans women, and couples. I know what I'm doing, but I'm more than willing to learn new things. I'm not in this just to get my dick wet, I want to make sure you've had a good time.

I am a pleaser. Nothing makes me happier than knowing my partner is having a good time, so I'll make sure your enjoyment comes first.

I've got about ten years worth of collected sex toys. I like to keep things fresh, and I've got a range of things including fleshlights, dildos, buttplugs, beads, bondage gear and more. I'm happy to bring things to our sessions so that it never gets stale.

If that all sounds good to you, flick me a message starting with 'potato', so that I can filter out those that don't bother to read. I'm more than happy to give more details, verify and just chat to get to know you first.