As the title suggests, two days apart I've had lucid and quite unsettling dreams about my partner.

1. We were going to perform in a band, I was ready and nervous. He was laid in bed fooling around naked. This happened to be in the bedroom I had as a teenager which is when I realised it was a dream. Never the less I was ready and he was knowingly late instead favouring f*cking around. His friends come in to nag him to get ready and completely ignore me. I wake up.

2. We're in his house which we rarely go to (in the real world he comes to mine and has only once invited me to his house). I already know something is up because his dream world house is completely different, I play along never the less. I go to the bathroom but it's the wrong room, I open the window forgetting he has indoor cats who might escape. I leave and go into the living room, he's not there but I notice water flooding the floor. I scramble to save his electrical devices and he comes in and gets angry I trashed his PS5. He drags me into the bedroom and shouts that he's angry but whispers in my ear that he's not really but he's pretending to be because his mum is in the room. I don't see her at first but there she is watching me and smiling. It was honestly the most haunting thing ever. I wake up.

Can someone interpret these or give me an indication why I might have two such negative lucid dreams about one person in a row? I feel very conflicted and I'm certain that this is my subconscious trying to communicate with me. Both dreams were so off putting I awoke to negative feelings about him in the real world that took a while to come down from which I realise, is crazy.

Tdlr: Weird ass lucid dreams about a particular person. Please help me unpick!