I recently started a new job. I work in a field that is mostly women. I’m a good looking guy I work out but still a bit of a belly. I went from 180 to 224 over the pandemic. I’ve been trying to lose it since then but I can’t seem to shake it. My wife has really been pushing me about it. We haven’t been intimate because of my size in some time. Well people like to pass food and bring sweets at work and share. I almost always pass and decline and say I’m trying to lose some weight. Well one female co worker in particular pressed me about it a few weeks ago.

She was like “why don’t you eat ?” I told her I was trying to get in better shape she asked again “why food is good” her English is a little broken she is middle eastern but she is a very kind lady. So over the last few weeks she has been pretty aggressive about bringing me her own treats and meals she has made at home. She doesn’t make single servings either it’s like for two or three people. I can catch her from time to time checking glances at my body. She has asked a lot about my wife and how she treats me. She’s tired to set up a few hang outs for us to go out and eat at places from her culture. My belt has lost a few notches already from her. I love it whatever her intentions are it’s nice to be liked for the figure I have.