I have been seeing some questions/topics that deal with - should I tell my partner about my feedist desires? (Feedist being FA, feeder/feedee, stuffing, fattening, etc.) And as I transition into “proper” middle age, my expereince tells me one thing: If you don’t reveal your inner needs and desires to your partner, part of you is going to feel neglected. That isn’t to be all doom and gloom! There are lots of relationships I have seen where one partner isn’t into it and they figure out a way to make both people feel whole, but it’s often more difficult than most. It’s also not for everyone; living a someone muted life with your partner and not being able to share your most intimate desires is hard. So, if you can take anything from me, I would say, talk to your partners and let them know who you are. If they can’t accept that and integrate it into their IDEA of who you are, then maybe the relationship, while nice, isn’t the one you need for your long term health and self-growth. Best of luck to all of you!