So to give a little context. In the past 2yrs or so I discovered weight gain and stuffers content, liked it because it kinda fell in with a number of other kinks I have (loved the pregnant belly look and growing breasts).

Well my main girl is a big girl and I recently told her how much I also love playing with her belly. She's not a fan but she doesn't care because I like it. We watch a lot of cooking shows and I love to cook. One night she ate to much, her stomach was nice and round and she referred to it as her food baby. Well it became a running joke, kinda. Well one drunk night I let slip that i thought she was hot when her belly was full like that because it made her look pregnant. She has a mild breeding kink so it worked.

That was about a year ago and I started noticing things. We have been getting closer and get each other little gifts all the time. So I usually get her like her favorite soda or candy, I love to cook and food is one of my love languages,so I cook for her often and I'm a good cook. And I've started to notice that her "food baby" incidents started happening more often and that she has recently been gaining weight, not that I'm complaining, fuller boobs, rounder belly ,softer butt, we know she's not pregnant. she not exactly happy about the gain but she's always had some imagine issues thanks to her mom, she actually looks amazing in my opinion.

But back to the question. With me getting her favorite candy and cooking like her favorite foods all the time, have I been subconsciously stuffing and fattening my girl? Have I accidentally become a feeder? And if so should I tell her what I've been doing and apologize? I really didn't mean to do this, I just like to cook and make her happy.