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Iâm (26f) going to be the best woman at my brotherâs wedding next year, and I was set to wear a suit, with the bride and groomâs enthusiastic support. Now my mom has said to me that she doesnât want me to wear one because sheâs âworried people will ask questionsâ and it will âtake attention away from the coupleâ and âI know youâre gay but this isnât about youâ. Now, Iâm not looking to unpack those statements. Sheâs overall supportive, but weird about gender roles and presentation. I just need help deciding whether this is a battle worth fighting. My momâs very stubborn and could make this very unpleasant if she chooses to (and she will). I donât need to be adding any extra stress on my brother or his fiancĂ©e during the wedding planning process. Thoughts?
Itâs not her battle. Wear the suit.
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