I'm looking for a long-term, in-person FWB in WNY. I've have success meeting some cool people on here, and would like to keep exploring 😊

I'm a curvy, BBW, white, F28 with long dark hair and dark eyes. I'm hourglass-shaped with a bit of a tummy. I have thick thighs and a fat ass. I am not thin, amd I understsnd that isn't for everyone! I dress punk/alt - think black clothes and leather boots all the time. I'll gladly send pictures if we get along!

I want someone I connect with and get along with, in addition to the sex. I want that deep connection where you trust the other person completely, and you feel like you can talk about anything with them. I want the "friend" just as much as the "benefits" in "friend with benefits" 🤭

I like anime, videogames, fantasy - most nerdy things! I'm an artist in my free time and I used to be a professional musician. I like meme humor and I love to laugh - but I also adore talking about deep shit, like your biggest dreams, your biggest secrets, your insecurities, your passions. I hate shallow conversstion.

Please don't just say "hey" or send a dick pic immediately and expect this to go anywhere. Introduce yourself. Tell me your ASL and a little about you - I want to know 😊 Fuck, something other than "wyd" or "hiiiii" or "hey" or "M (age)?" If I can't trust you to follow directions on a post, I wont trust you with my body.

Before you message, please know:

1. I'm in an open relationship. My partner knows I'm on here doing this - and encourages it!
2. Don't message me if you're cheating on your partner. Singles or people in open relationships only, please.
3. I prefer people my age or older. I also prefer BHMs, BBWs, and people on the chubbier / fatter / bigger /plus-side side, however you'd like to word it.
4. If we meet in person, be willing to prove that you're clean. I am clean and have the tests to prove it!
5. I am shy, and I have a history of sexual trauma - both of which I am trying to overcome. If I don't answer, or don't answer right away, please be patient. This is kind of new for me and I get overwhelmed 😅