My girlfriend is very shy and conservative. She seldom spend time with my white friends or colleagues. As she said, they look so big and a bit "scary" to her. Maybe because she is petite, she feels intimated in front of big and muscular guys. I think it is the reason why such a lovely girl like her decided to stay with me - an average asian boy in every aspects.

My sister, on the other side, is very out-going and sociable. She would like to help by bringing my girl to hang out with her white friends (I don't know those guys, but heard that they're kinda tough). I found this idea very intriguing; However, I feel a bit out of control as I have no idea about those guys and what they will go to my girls without my presence. Besides, as we're gonna get marriage soon, I concern if I open the idea to my girlfriend, she'll be scared and run away.

The pic below is just someone looks extremely similar to my girlfriend (especially the body size and the smile). Hopefully I can get their real pics one day.

https://preview.redd.it/xmlmfl9a7mjd1.png?width=1906&format=png&auto=webp&s=f49148c55dc73e016d519d90814d68d3df34aa0a