To give context, I’m a femme presenting woman. I’m still not sure what my label is. I’m turned on with men before but lately I’ve been more into women. I’m currently having a casual thing with one right now but I think I may be ready for a relationship. I’m just looking for the person. I’m not sure if this is the right place to ask, but where do femmes usually hang out? I tried various apps: Bumble, Tinder, Her and have no luck meeting one who’s looking for what I’m also looking.

I’m actually trying to date because my usual self may be getting too attached to the person I’m having a casual arrangement with. So I’m putting myself out here. Thanks in advance to those who’ll leave a message.

I’m still in the closet though so this may be a deal breaker for some. ✌🏻