Hello!! Nice na may ganito palang sub hihi.

I’m F26, femme, and 2 years ago ko lang na-realize na I’m into girls pero not sure pa ako sa label ko. Idk if bisexual or lesbian ako kasi I’m physically attracted sa guys (kpop HAHAHA) but physically/emotionally/romantically/sexually attracted to girls. It took some time din for me to accept na bading ako but I’ve been open naman sa mga nakaka-date ko dati na I’m still exploring that time. Hindi rin ako out sa family ko, only sa close friends whom I trust. I think it’s been a problem for me in dating kasi most of my wlw relationships didn’t work out coz I’m not out.

I have a gf rn and nung before maging kami I’ve been open na I’m not yet out. They said it’s fine and that I should take my time. I love my gf and nakikita ko na siya makakasama ko in the future but naiisip ko paano if di ako out. Syempre gusto ko siya mapakilala sa family ko but hindi pa ako ganun ka-comfy and baka di nila ako tanggap.

They opened up to me na miss na niya ma-post sa social media. Idk if parinig ba yun pero I told them na di pa ko out so I’m sorry and if ever it’s not ok with them, just say so, to check if aligned/compatible pa kami. So baby steps lang ginagawa ko like napakilala ko na siya sa close friends ko, post sa ig story but close friends lang. Yun na ung best na kaya ko huhu. I’m just afraid na baka matulad sa previous relationships ko.

Ayun lang, salamat sa pakikinig. Happy pride!